Four Gifts of Love® — Online Institute

What's the Purpose of a Wedding?

FEB 12, 2018

Are weddings still necessary? Dr. Harley gives his view on the purpose of a wedding.

How to Negotiate, Part 1

When You Are an Emotional Person

FEB 01, 2018

Dr. Harley offers guidelines that help couples get through negotiation with ease. But what if, even with these guidelines, your emotions "get in the way"? This article offers an answer to that question.

How to Negotiate, Part 2

When No One Wants to Raise the Issue

SEP 17, 2019

Are there problems in your marriage that have been festering for years? Have you lost hope of ever resolving them because they are never discussed? Are you afraid to bring them up? Dr. Harley offers an approach that addresses these questions.

What to Do with Your Fifteen Hours of Undivided Attention

JAN 24, 2018

Fifteen hours? Really? In this article, Dr. Harley will help you understand the importance of dating in marriage and how planning your dates will depend on each of your Love Bank balances.

The Question of the Ages: How Can a Husband Receive the Amount of Sex He Needs in Marriage?

OCT 08, 2019

The Apostle Paul wrote concerning sex, "Don't deprive each other except by mutual consent." But as most husbands know, it's not as simple as following the suggestion of a Bible verse. Dr. Harley explains more about this topic.

Why Are the Differences Between a Man and a Woman So Valuable in Marriage?

FEB 01, 2018

Sadly, at times gender differences are not considered a good thing. But Dr. Harley disagrees. Why? This article gives an answer..

Romantic Love: Is It a Realistic Goal for Marriage?

SEP 17, 2019

Many marriage professionals argue that sustaining romantic love is unrealistic. Dr. Chalmers disagrees.

Dating the One You Married, Part 1:

How Is Romantic Love Created and Sustained

JAN 20, 2018

Does dating stop after the marriage ceremony? Hopefully not. In this article series, Dr. Harley will offer you practical advice for keeping romantic dating alive in marriage.

Dating the One You Married, Part 2:

How Dating Affects Romantic Love

JAN 17, 2018

Dr. Harley offers more advice on how to make your dates the most exciting time for you and your spouse.

Dating the One You Married, Part 3:

The Policy of Undivided Attention

JAN 24, 2018

Dr. Harley offers more advice on how to make your dates the most exciting time for you and your spouse as he describes a couple who are almost in love.

Dating the One You Married, Part 4:

Scheduling Time for Undivided Attention

MAY 01, 2018

How do you schedule time for Undivided Attention? Dr. Harley continues his Dating after Marriage series with advice on how to do this.

Dating the One You Married, Part 5:

Independent Lifestyles

FEB 01, 2018

Dr. Harley continues his series on dating in marriage as he writes about a more challenging couple situation who had independent lifestyles.

What's the Purpose of a Wedding?

How to Negotiate, Part 1

How to Negotiate, Part 2

What to Do with Your Fifteen Hours of Undivided Attention

The Question of the Ages: How Can a Husband Receive the Amount of Sex He Needs in Marriage?

Why Are the Differences Between a Man and a Woman So Valuable in Marriage?

Romantic Love: Is It a Realistic Goal for Marriage?

Dating the One You Married, Part 1:

Dating the One You Married, Part 2:

Dating the One You Married, Part 3:

Dating the One You Married, Part 4:

Dating the One You Married, Part 5:

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